Forty arrived without much fanfare, just as I prefer: a lot of birthday wishes on my Facebook page, a song from my dad (yes, at 5:55 a.m., which is not a significant time other than he felt like singing loudly right then), and a cup of coffee waiting for me in the kitchen on this slightly sunny yet still unseasonably and unreasonably cool morning.
First – I am NOT disappointed that I didn’t make the 30 lb goal. I am shocked and awed that I lost 24 lbs! For the first time in longer than I can remember, I have goals for myself – they might all be health and diet and weight-related at this point, but they are goals, nonetheless.
- Lose 7 more lbs. 6 lbs meet the 30 lbs goal, 1 lb more gets me to the goal weight.
- Lose a total of 8 more inches: .75 off the chest, 3.75 off the waist, and 3.5 off the hips.
- Try to skip a third HCG round in September by continuing to eat right and exercise often.
- Stop considering training for a 5k run and actually start training for it. And I do mean running a whole 3 miles.
- If all of this goes well…lose 5 to 10 more lbs after goal, with or without HCG, in January (probably with).
Today, however, is my day to forget dieting and carbs and calories. Today, I’ll eat what I crave. I think I’ll have my usual two scrambled eggs and salsa for breakfast…I love that and there’s no reason to splurge. We’ll see what happens once it’s wine o’clock or beer:30 or martini time later on! Dinner will be an extravagance, but you only turn 40 once and if that needs to include some pasta, so be it. I’m trying to think about food in celebratory terms now – meaning that I should eat right 95% of the time so the 5% of the time that calls for celebrating, I can do so without guilt. I don’t want to feel as if there are good foods and bad foods ever again. I just want to think about what’s healthy for MY body, and work with my body instead of against it.
So…the bikini…I totally forgot to bring it!!! In fact, I have “like 8 bikinis” all sitting at home ready to wear this summer but in my haste to pack, I completely forgot about this goal – which I think is a good thing, as it means I’m not fixated on just the bikini, I’m looking at the goal globally. I have a bikini top and some swim shorts with me, but I’m not sure that qualifies as a bikini, so I probably won’t be photographing it. Or maybe I will and I’ll feel safer with the shorts. 😀
Anway…I think 40 is a journey that is going to take me longer than just this year to finish. I think this is going to be a decade of self-awareness and hopefully self-fulfillment. I want to continue this feeling of worthiness to set goals. I want to actually have something to answer when someone asks me what I’ve been doing. So 40 is the year of living purposely…I will find what I’m meant to do, even if it takes me the entire decade to do so.